(Some of this I posted before the server crash and was deleted)
We are being harsh for a reason. I actually love my job. Why? Because I went to a school known for my major (was actually one of the first schools to do my major), I networked, and because of that got a good first job that propelled me from there. When I was in school I took a 3D computer animation class. My teacher knew a ton of people in the industry and almost everyone in the class was majoring in something to do with it. He let me in because I had taken one of his other classes and he was hoping to talk me into switching majors. The point of all this, I went to Penn State, pretty far from California and all the places like Pixar. Yet many graduates of his ended up working for Pixar and other California based companies because he would hand pick the ones he thought that could make it and used his contacts to get them internships and/or jobs. I bet you all those guys are pretty happy with their jobs, or at least when they came back to talk us students they were happy. Going to school "near" your dream job doesn't mean you have an advantage over someone who goes to school far from their dream job.
Our points are that moving to Central Florida would very well get him a cast member job that might make him temporarily happy, but in the long run will he be happy 10 or 20 years from now when he still hasn't gotten into creative? He still is not working where he wants to be working because he didn't go to a school that will get him the contacts and networking he needs to get his dream job. Other are saying that working for Disney or Universal in general may not get him his dream job because many of his dream jobs are outsourced to other companies.
It is all valid advise and we are trying to help him, not make him miserable. You are making a lot of assumptions about the people trying to help him.